December 27, 2009

Practice Makes Perfect

We all say we have the best group of friends in the world. I hear it all the time. This is my best friend, but then 6 months later the people that said that aren't even friends anymore. Well, I am going to say it and mean it. I really do have some of the greatest friends. I know what it means to have people in my life that are loyal and trustworthy.

My best friend is not only loyal, but funny as hell. I have been friends with him for about 9 years. Things weren't always great. We actually couldn't stand each other when we first met. He thought I was a bitch and I thought he was a bitch and some how we worked that out. lol I am not really a "feelings" type of girl. I don't need to tell people how I feel every 5 minutes and talk though issues. That is possibly because I hang out with guys most of the time. If I end up talking about how I feel that means it really is a problem. A lot of things happen in 9 years. From broken hearts to broken doors he has seen it all. The best part about him is that I can be who I want without games or judgement.

The reason I decided to blog about him is because he has a huge place in my book. Sometimes, I think I should have just written my book on the last 9 years of phone conversations and text messages we have had. There is not a conversation that goes by without us talking about sex or something along those lines. We have had a lot of talks about some of the craziest shit. We live by one rule. Everything goes if you want to say it or ask it then by all means don't hold back. I tend to do a lot more asking then telling but nothing is off limits.

His response to me if I want to try something new is "just practice"... If I would practice all the times he has told me that I would possibly have to quit my job. lol I think having a friendship like this one has helped me be more fun and open about things most people don't talk about. So, when I become a master at the latest skill I am practicing I will let you know. It should be interesting. So, thanks Michael for making our friendship real, fun, and entertaining.

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